The Kingdom of Mutual Submission

Sermon by Overseer Sung-Hyun Kim

Submit to One Another

Ephesians 5:21

“submitting to one another in the fear of God.” (Eph 5:21)

“This is my beloved, And this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem!” (Song 5:16). The one the woman loves is the king. Why does she love him? Is it because of his dominion? No, it is not. It is because of his passionate love. The king’s love for her is so great that the entire nation knows about it. It is as if the king’s banner declares, “I am the one who loves her.” While all people submit to him, before her happiness and joy, he submits himself. The king does not rule over her unilaterally. She describes their relationship, saying, “My beloved is mine, and I am his” (Song 2:16).

This is the kind of marriage that God desires, and beyond that, the model for all interpersonal relationships. Such a relationship cannot be built on mutual respect alone. The key to this relationship is mutual submission. Respect means considering others while still holding onto one’s own rights, but submission means the willingness to relinquish even one’s own rights. While the word “submission” may carry a negative connotation, in reality, it is the fundamental principle that upholds the order of all existence and sustains life. No organization, including a nation, can be maintained if its members do not submit to authority. This is even more true for the church. Moreover, submission within the church is even more important because it directly impacts one’s eternal destiny.

The submission that God emphasizes is not one-sided but mutual. Mutual submission is not easily understood by human reasoning, but the sacrifice of Jesus Christ clearly shows what it means. As the King of the eternal kingdom, He is fully deserving of the submission of His people. However, He rather submitted Himself to the happiness and joy of all His people. Through this, we received salvation, and now we live within the principle of mutual submission. Then, can this principle truly be fulfilled? Yes, it can. This principle will surely succeed because it was established by the King of the eternal kingdom through His own sacrifice as both a foundation and a way.

All Christians who are filled with the Holy Spirit are those who submit. If a husband demands submission from his wife and complains that it does not meet his expectations, he is failing in his own duty to submit to his wife’s happiness. Likewise, a wife should not feel discomfort about submitting to her husband. Submission in Christ is based on equality. Just as Christ, though equal with God, submitted to Him, a wife’s submission to her husband is not about superiority or inferiority but about a difference in function. It stems from the authority of submission that responds to Christ’s love.

Submitting to one another is only possible for those who fear Christ. Even if those who are not filled with the Holy Spirit try to imitate it, they will inevitably reach their limit due to their fleshly desires. The Lord is watching over us. Let us deeply reflect on the love and power of the Lord, who submitted Himself to our happiness and joy, and kneel before His authority. Let us not lose a fearful heart until the day our salvation is fulfilled. Let us remember that the Lord’s judgment is coming and submit to the authority He has granted. And let us resolve to submit ourselves to the happiness and joy of all. Through our submission, the kingdom of God will shine even more brightly.

Overseer Sung-Hyun Kim
Lord’s Day Service on February 16, 2025

Obey Your Parents in the Lord

Ephesians 6:1

“Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.” (Eph 6:1)

The relationship between parents and children is not just a matter of family life. It is certainly not just a personal issue. It is each person who receives salvation individually, but God’s grand plan—which those who have received salvation must participate in—goes far beyond what any one person can bear on their own. His plan is vast in scale, and it takes a long time for it to be fulfilled. In Christ, God enabled the souls of the church to be united, and He is continually building His kingdom. We are not in a position to stand by and say, “Someone else will take care of it.” All who believe in Jesus are meant to be part of this work from the moment they believe.

Due to human corruption, the family was the very first to be severely affected. Just as serious as conflict between husband and wife is the conflict between parents and children, and the issue of their children’s faith. For children to grow up as believers, they must first be protected from being tainted by the corruption of the world. The sinful nature that a person is born with brings about sin whenever the opportunity arises. Therefore, it is not right for parents to neglect their children with the vague thought, “They’ll believe when they grow up.” When we consider how God chose the family of Abraham—and how, starting from that family, His will was passed down through many generations—we can understand this more clearly.

For Christians, having children carries a completely different meaning than it does for unbelievers. From God’s perspective, it is not merely the birth of a life but the securing of a channel of blessing. Referring to parents as a “channel” does not mean that they simply deliver blessings. Just as Abraham was able to bless Isaac because he himself had first received God’s blessing, parents must also first be blessed in order to pass it on to their children. In this way, through families that experience God’s blessing and pass it down to the next generation, God is carrying out His plan to overcome what Satan has destroyed and to restore His united kingdom.

After the fall, cursed humanity has suffered from countless problems—but the collapse of the family is the most devastating of all. Male chauvinism, the backlash of women against it, children’s disobedience, and parental abuse are all fruits of the curse that destroy the family. This destruction is being carried out systematically through the world’s systems. Secular values, human-centered philosophies, and socialist ideologies rooted in atheism all work to weaken family bonds, dismantle the relationship between parents and children, and lure children away from God’s influence by offering freedom as bait. Just like a frog in a pot gradually cooks as it adapts to the increasingly hot water, today’s families are collapsing little by little—without even realizing it.

God said to Abraham, “Through you and your descendants, all families of the earth shall be blessed.” And when the nation of Israel was established, He said, “You shall be to Me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation. Each family must take up the role of a priest.” In order to carry on this mission from generation to generation, the Israelites taught the Word to their children—whether at home or on the street, when lying down or getting up. They bound it as a sign on their hands, placed it as frontlets between their eyes, and wrote it on the doorposts of their houses. This effort must continue even today. The younger the children are, the more quickly they absorb the culture of the world. Let us not surrender them to the world. By teaching and training them with the Word from an early age, let God’s plan continue through us.

Overseer Sung-Hyun Kim
Lord’s Day Service on April 6, 2025

Sincere Christians and Society

Ephesians 6:5-9

“Bondservants, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in sincerity of heart, as to Christ; not with eyeservice, as men-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, with goodwill doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men, knowing that whatever good anyone does, he will receive the same from the Lord, whether he is a slave or free. And you, masters, do the same things to them, giving up threatening, knowing that your own Master also is in heaven, and there is no partiality with Him.” (Eph 6:5-9)

Many Christians live as though their life inside the church and outside the church are two separate things. On the Lord’s Day, they display a form of godliness, but during the week, they entrust themselves to worldly values and regard their ways as the highest wisdom, fully trusting the voice of the world. But God does not want us to live such a divided life. We are not only members of the church, but people called to follow His will in the world. Faith inside the church cannot be separated from life outside it. Christians are not those who flee from the world, but those who, right in the midst of it, are called to bear the mission of being the light and salt.

The saying, “Worldly matters are outside the realm of faith,” may sound reasonable, but it is no different from justifying a way of life tainted by sin. God is not with us only in the church. He watches us at our workplaces, in our homes, and throughout society. Through every part of our lives, He desires that His righteousness be revealed. If someone claims to be upright before God in the church, yet follows unrighteousness in the world, they are walking contrary to His salvation. What we confess in the place of worship is not everything. It is the attitude we show after we walk out of the church that reveals the reality of our faith.

Those who grow accustomed to living by the world’s ways outside the church naturally bring those same ways into the church. As a result, selfishness, opportunism, and the logic of greed begin to take root not only in the world but also within the church. There are those who use the church as a means to satisfy their own desires—those who say they love the Lord, yet wound the church, His body! Such actions go against the grace of salvation and deny the very essence of the gospel. Anyone who truly knows what the love they have received from God is will act uprightly even when no one is watching and serve the church with a heart full of gratitude toward the Lord.

When people feel that life is difficult, they often blame the structure or system of society, thinking that things will improve if the system is simply changed. But God has exposed the root of the problem: it lies in the human heart, not in the structure of society. Even if a system is well established, if people ignore their conscience and act selfishly, that system cannot fully carry out its intended role. God did not give us the gospel to reform social systems. Above all, He desires that we be awakened to our sin and repent. He does not want us to live a life tainted by the ways of the world, but to live in obedience to His righteousness.

This is not something that can be done by human will alone. Living truthfully in the world, preserving purity within the church, and walking uprightly—whether people are watching or not—are things we cannot do without the help of the Holy Spirit. If denying our greed for God’s righteousness could be achieved by our own determination, the Lord would not have commanded us to pray for it. Even today, the Lord shines His light into the world through someone’s pure life. “Does my life show God’s righteousness?” “Do others come to find God’s goodness through me?” Let us stand honestly before these questions and seek the help of the Holy Spirit again today.

Overseer Sung-Hyun Kim
Lord’s Day Service on May 18, 2025

Christians Who Obey Their Masters

Ephesians 6:5-8

“Bondservants, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in sincerity of heart, as to Christ; not with eyeservice, as men-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, with goodwill doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men, knowing that whatever good anyone does, he will receive the same from the Lord, whether he is a slave or free.” (Eph 6:5-8)

“Why should I obey a man? I only obey God.” Unfortunately, many Christians today speak this way. However, the Lord speaks to us through the apostle Paul: “Bondservants, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in sincerity of heart, as to Christ.” We Christians serve Christ as our Master, but while we are on this earth, we must also show respect to our masters according to the flesh. This teaching is not limited to people from thousands or hundreds of years ago. Even today, there are those who hire others—and those who are hired to work under them. Therefore, the relationship between masters and servants that the Lord desires is still valid today.

For Christians, obedience to their masters according to the flesh is part of their obedience to Christ. Whether the master’s character is honorable or not, we must treat them with fear and trembling. This command is given for the sake of our eternal Master. To fear and tremble does not mean to be afraid of the master. It means approaching our duties with a sincere and serious heart, asking ourselves, “How can I carry out my master’s work successfully? How can I please my master?” Such an attitude becomes a testimony to unbelievers, a source of courage to fellow believers, and an act of serving His name—before God.

“I am not a servant of man, but a servant of Christ!” If you want to make such a claim, then to back it up, you must obey your master according to the flesh. This is because doing so is a clear and firm command from Christ. If someone tries to please their master only when he is watching, but fails to do so when he is not, that person is merely a servant of man. But if someone is truly a servant of Christ, they will obey their master with sincerity of heart—whether their master is watching or not. For obedience to one’s master according to the flesh is obedience to Christ.

Therefore, when we obey our masters according to the flesh, we must not do so reluctantly, but with goodwill and joy. To envy or be jealous of one’s master is an impure attitude, unworthy of a servant of Christ. If someone carries out the work entrusted by their master outwardly, but secretly criticizes or mocks them behind their back, they have already strayed far from sincerity and purity toward Christ. Anyone who claims to be a servant of Christ must not compromise their integrity by relying on mere eyeservice. We should serve our masters with goodwill, so that our souls may be found by God as people of integrity and sincerity.

The master may not recognize our efforts. At times, someone else might take credit for what we have worked on for a long time. We may feel disheartened when no one acknowledges our hard work and sincerity. However, if we are truly servants of Christ, we must overcome such inner struggles and take a step forward. God remembers everything we do for His name, and He will surely reward us on the day of the Last Judgment. Whether one holds a high or low position, none of it is eternal—and such positions themselves will not benefit us in the Last Judgment. Let us now abandon a short-sighted way of thinking and make the precious time given to us truly meaningful and beautiful.

Overseer Sung-Hyun Kim
Lord’s Day Service on May 25, 2025

Christian Masters Who Serve Their Bondservants

Ephesians 6:9

“And you, masters, do the same things to them, giving up threatening, knowing that your own Master also is in heaven, and there is no partiality with Him.” (Eph 6:9)

“Pitiful servant. Wicked master.” Such thoughts prevail in the world. But God does not see it that way. Whether one is a master or a servant, everyone bears a heavy responsibility in their own place. A master is not someone who exercises authority recklessly, but someone who carries a burden that someone must bear. While the master should seek the happiness of the servant, the servant, in turn, should make an effort to understand the master’s heart. The world constantly urges us to compare, complain, and fight. But Christians must trust in the God who is just and prepare for the coming day of judgment.

Just as servants must obey their masters in Christ, those who are masters must treat their servants in the same way. This is because both masters and servants are under the same Master. The attitude and manner in which masters treat their servants is directly connected to how they treat their own Master in heaven. If a master fails to restrain their own temperament and treats their servants recklessly, it becomes difficult for the servants to obey from the heart. They also lose the will to work with pure passion. A master must not forget that their authority is a function, not a status—and that it is not permanent, but temporary.

In the world, it is often considered natural for those in high social positions to look down on others and show off their authority before them. But God shows no partiality to people. The position a person held on this earth has no direct bearing on the judgment they will face. On the contrary, it may even work against them on the day of judgment. Regardless of the external circumstances each person was given, everyone will be judged according to what they have done on this earth. To each one who does evil, there will be tribulation and anguish; but to each one who does good, there will be glory, honor, and peace.

A Christian’s way of life begins with a heart directed toward Christ. Those who seek to be faithful to Him in their hearts will live with a sense of His presence and treat others according to His will—whether in marriage or in the workplace. As they strive to live this way, they will gradually grow to resemble the Lord, and through their lives, they will reveal the character of Christ. In Christ, the principle of mutual submission applies to the relationship between master and servant, just as it does to the relationship between husband and wife. This cannot be achieved by force. It is impossible in the world, but in Christ, it can be accomplished through the power of the Holy Spirit.

The world is the field of God’s ministry. The church bears responsibility for the world. God has not yet destroyed the world because there are still those whom He will save and use within it. Christians do not live in this world carelessly. Spiritual life is not only something that takes place within the church. Everything we experience in the world is part of our spiritual life. We must live sincerely—not only as members of the church community, but as members of the human community. Let us not fill this brief journey of life with complaints and conflict, but with a beautiful devotion that serves the Lord with all our hearts.

Overseer Sung-Hyun Kim
Lord’s Day Service on June 1, 2025